As we already move into the second week of January 2024, and contemplate the year ahead, let’s explore a concept that profoundly influences our daily lives: the impact of habits on our futures. As the saying goes, “People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits, and their habits decide their futures.” Let’s delve into the fascinating interplay between our habits and the path our lives take, weaving in the common challenge of New Year’s resolutions and how understanding habits can lead to lasting change.

The Power of Habits

Habits quietly construct the framework of our routines, behaviors, and destinies. It’s the small, consistent actions taken daily that shape our trajectory, not the occasional grand decisions. Understanding this power is essential, especially in the context of New Year’s resolutions—those promises we make at the start of each year that often fizzle out as the months progress.

Renowned psychologist Charles Duhigg introduced the concept of the “habit loop” in his book, “The Power of Habit.” Let’s break down this loop with real-life examples to help you navigate your own habit landscape.

Understanding the Habit Loop with New Year’s Resolutions

Consider the classic example of a New Year’s resolution to exercise more:

  1. Cue(trigger): The New Year symbolises a fresh start and serves as the cue or trigger for many to make resolutions, such as deciding to exercise more.
  2. Routine (behaviour): Initially, there’s a surge of enthusiasm, leading to the establishment of a new exercise routine—perhaps hitting the gym every day. And the more you repeat this behaviour, the more you reinforce this habit and potentially strengthen it.
  3. Reward: The initial rewards decrease, and those dopamine surges are less. Unfortunately, as time progresses, the initial motivation wanes, and the reward of improved fitness or weight loss may not be immediate or tangible. This lack of immediate reward contributes to the abandonment of the resolution.

Taking Control of Your Habits Beyond Resolutions

If you appreciate and understand the role of habits, you can implement these practical examples to help you take control and cultivate positive change in your own life, steering clear of the common pitfalls of New Year’s resolutions.


Reflect on past resolutions that may have fallen by the wayside. Identify the cues, routines, and rewards associated with these resolutions. For instance, if your resolution was to read more (cue: the desire for self-improvement), the routine may have been attempting to read for hours daily, and the reward might have been a sense of accomplishment. Recognising these elements is the first step toward change.

Set Realistic Goals

Instead of grand, sweeping resolutions, set realistic and achievable goals. If your resolution was to exercise more, consider a more specific goal, such as taking a 30-minute walk three times a week. This approach ensures sustainable progress.

Replace, Don’t Eliminate

Rather than abandoning resolutions altogether, focus on replacing negative habits with positive alternatives. If your resolution was to eat healthier, replace one unhealthy snack with a nutritious option. This incremental change is more manageable and sustainable.

Consistency is Key

Building new habits requires consistency, and the enthusiasm of a New Year’s resolution often fades quickly. Implement small changes consistently, and over time, they will become ingrained in your routine.

Seek Support

Share your goals with friends, family, or a support group. Whether it’s a New Year’s resolution or a mid-year commitment, having a support system can provide encouragement and accountability.

In the intricate dance between decisions, habits, and the allure of New Year’s resolutions, it’s the former that often holds the key to lasting change. By understanding the power of habits and actively participating in the habit loop, you can become the architect of your destiny. Beyond the cycle of unfulfilled resolutions, embrace the journey of shaping your habits. In doing so, you’ll be steering towards a future you’ve consciously designed, one small, consistent action at a time.

Remember, you can’t always decide your future, but you can decide your habits.